POOR, YET HAPPY
by T. Joe Eggebrecht, Guest Essayist
Growing up during the Great Depression in a small town we kids had no TVs, no computers, no skating rink, and often no radios or movie theaters (except the free street movies). We had hours of fun with a big pasteboard box from the grocery store, driving an empty can down the street with a small tree limb, and building a tree house with old boards. My brother and I taught ourselves to pole vault with a sapling we cut on the river bank. We pole vaulted over fences and mud puddles, or over a cross bar set-up that we had constructed. We never got sick from rummaging through the bottles and other containers in the trash behind the drug store or the doctor's office or collecting stamps from behind the insurance office. We had fun with no expense simply because we had no money. Now we need money, lots of it. Our kids just will not spend hours playing with a pasteboard box or a nine foot sapling with the branches trimmed off. They have to have electronic toys that cost lots of money.
So, greed has become the attitude and the cry from our hometown to our nation's Capitol. Congress is accusing bank executives of greed. Investment execs are pointing the finger at greedy professional athletes and lawyers." But have any of them actually looked in the mirror? Aren't the Congressmen just as greedy as the Wall Street execs? Congress has given themselves big pay raises, perks, and health coverage while so many Americans are struggling financially with a pay cut and no health coverage? If you are looking to Congress and the President for relief, forget it. They take care of themselves with our tax money.
Rabbi Avrahim Trugman wrote the following: "It is obvious to anyone who has seen a bit of the world and known people from all strata of society that money is no guarantee of happiness. It may even be true that the more money, the more problems, and in many cases the more unhappiness. In fact, this sentiment was expressed clearly in the Ethics of the Fathers 2,000 years ago: 'the more possessions--the more worry__'
"Why is this so? It seems that the more we have, the easier it is to fall into the trap of becoming dependent upon our possessions to provide us happiness. This is especially true in our age where the constant bombardment of the media and advertising is geared to make us think we must have It all and we must have it now! If not, we are missing something and are somehow deprived.
"Happiness is an attitude towards life and comes from a deep inner feeling of self-worth and purpose. All the money in the world cannot create these feelings of self esteem. Another gem of wisdom in the Ethics of the Fathers states: 'Who is rich? One who is happy with his lot!'
"This is not to say that one needs to be poor to be happy either. Money is neutral. Like many other things money can be used for good and positive purposes or the opposite. To be happy with our lot also does not mean we should not strive for a more comfortable life style and accept poverty with no hope of betterment. It does mean though that we should strive to be happy and grateful with what we have, no matter what the circumstances. To do so indicates a great trust in God and leads to inner peace and contentment."
Consider: "And having food and raiment, let us be therewith content. But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition. For the love of money is the root of all evil." [I Timothy 6:8-10]
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THANK YOU JOE, for another reminder from the generation who was raised on the necessities of life and found a happiness and satisfaction that our current society thinks only money can buy. THE WORDWRIGHT
